It was 1984. I was driving a car. My Mom and Dad were with me. That morning, we had just driven from Pocahontas up to Kansas City to get “my things.” I had “come out of the closet” the week before, to my wife, to my folks, in an explosive rebirth that left the world a shambles around all of us. We’d gotten ourselves to Olathe, we’d packed up what bits of mine I’d been told to take. We were on our way back, along about 5:30 in the evening. It was dusk. It was November, the week of Thanksgiving.
(The couple times in my life when I’ve blown “the walls off” for some reason, it always seems I do it right around some major holiday, ensuring for all a happy memory of that year.)
We were driving Hwy. 13 south and east of Harrisonville, MO and I dialed the knob of the radio and came across Prairie Home Companion. Having never before heard it, of course, I didn’t know what it was.
Whatever it was that evening, it took all of us in the car. We laughed out loud for the first time in a week. For a while the ‘cloud’ that had hung over us, lifted, for the while our reception of the station lasted.
It was months, or a year or two later, I figured out who Keillor was, and began on occasion to listen once in a while. I never hear some part of his broadcast, that I don’t think of that evening. And somehow, that lift I felt back then accompanies the thought.
Call me what you will, insipid sentimentalist, or some such worse, I kind of like the old guy.
Oct 4, 2007 at 1:04 am
It was 1984 for me as well, and I was “trapped” with my Uncle Harold “the born-again stock broker” and his soon-to-be dead wife Lois, when I first heard the Prairie Home friends speaking to me from across the room. It was the last Thanksgiving I spent with Aunt Lois. We all sat, transfixed, listening … unable or … unmotivated … or perhaps unwilling to move. For dessert, we had pumpkin pie … which to this day I detest.
But I do love YOU … little Ricky.
XOD
Oct 4, 2007 at 2:04 am
No one reads me as well as you. I would have it no other way.
Oct 6, 2007 at 8:12 pm
Rick, you’ve just started “Remembery”, and I’m already addicted.
Oct 10, 2007 at 9:41 am
I remember when I was so entrenched in Christian fundamentalism that Prairie Home Companion seemed risqué–a tremendous relief from my life as it was then.
Nov 25, 2009 at 5:05 pm
Damn, Rick – this is a beautiful post.